Comments for This...that and everything else! http://actsofrandomkindness.wordpress.com Life, liberty and the pursuit of happiness Tue, 19 Feb 2008 21:30:41 +0000 http://wordpress.com/ hourly 1 Comment on New Beginnings by arcin http://actsofrandomkindness.wordpress.com/2008/01/26/new-beginnings/#comment-6 arcin Tue, 19 Feb 2008 21:30:41 +0000 http://actsofrandomkindness.wordpress.com/2008/01/26/new-beginnings/#comment-6 Marissa, I didn't delete the original post, you simply posted to "New Beginnings" and not to "And then there was doubt." I actually was trying to find a way to move the comment but I was unable to do so. As far as your opinion is concerned you are certainly welcome to post what you think. Although for clarification sake the reason I don't believe in procreation before marriage is because I believe a child should be raised with a mother and father that are married. This is actually probably the least sexually driven relationship I have had per se. Or rather there is so much more to our relationship than just the physical. It is a complete relationship. I don't think it is okay to marry over and over and what not but unfortunately the circumstances necessitated the previous divorces. I hated going through the divorces which is why I don't want to make a mistake with this one as I don't want to go through another one. Anyway, feel free to post as you see fit. Best of Luck Arcin Marissa,

I didn’t delete the original post, you simply posted to “New Beginnings” and not to “And then there was doubt.” I actually was trying to find a way to move the comment but I was unable to do so. As far as your opinion is concerned you are certainly welcome to post what you think. Although for clarification sake the reason I don’t believe in procreation before marriage is because I believe a child should be raised with a mother and father that are married. This is actually probably the least sexually driven relationship I have had per se. Or rather there is so much more to our relationship than just the physical. It is a complete relationship. I don’t think it is okay to marry over and over and what not but unfortunately the circumstances necessitated the previous divorces. I hated going through the divorces which is why I don’t want to make a mistake with this one as I don’t want to go through another one. Anyway, feel free to post as you see fit.

Best of Luck

Arcin

]]> Comment on New Beginnings by arcin http://actsofrandomkindness.wordpress.com/2008/01/26/new-beginnings/#comment-4 arcin Tue, 19 Feb 2008 19:25:46 +0000 http://actsofrandomkindness.wordpress.com/2008/01/26/new-beginnings/#comment-4 I appreciate your thoughts, one minor detail is that I don't believe in pre-marital relations. That would actually add a whole host of problems that I can't really talk about. Anyway none-the-less, that is food for thought. Thank you for your input. I appreciate your thoughts, one minor detail is that I don’t believe in pre-marital relations. That would actually add a whole host of problems that I can’t really talk about. Anyway none-the-less, that is food for thought. Thank you for your input.

]]> Comment on New Beginnings by Marissa http://actsofrandomkindness.wordpress.com/2008/01/26/new-beginnings/#comment-3 Marissa Tue, 19 Feb 2008 17:56:06 +0000 http://actsofrandomkindness.wordpress.com/2008/01/26/new-beginnings/#comment-3 Not sure I am a good person to give advice as I am getting divorced as we speak but here's my thought. You can do all the things you said without getting married. You can love her, make love to her, wake up with her, stay committed to her and live happily ever after without involving a legal document. Maybe you need to focus on being together instead of whether you should get married. I don't know. I might just be gunshy myself but that makes sense to me. Best, Marissa Not sure I am a good person to give advice as I am getting divorced as we speak but here’s my thought. You can do all the things you said without getting married. You can love her, make love to her, wake up with her, stay committed to her and live happily ever after without involving a legal document. Maybe you need to focus on being together instead of whether you should get married. I don’t know. I might just be gunshy myself but that makes sense to me.

Best,
Marissa

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